So more on being the breakeven trader and this and that and what you can do about the emotional part. You know, if it’s, if it is in fact difficult for you to hold overnight or hold over the weekend, you could always cut your position size by who knows 50% to 90% just to see how it feels. You know, you could always just trade one contract or one share and take it home. I can understand if your account is small and underfunded, that you probably feel every hundred dollars tick. But again, if you convert that to percentages, things become much more reasonable. If you lose a hundred dollars on a $5,000 account, do you see it in dollars or do you see it in percentages? Because it’s only 2%. If I do my math correctly.
So at the end of the day, you can kind of coach yourself out of this. And you know, a couple of things. One is what happens if you do lose money overnight or over the weekend, why would that be different than losing money during the day? Because you have a false sense of security in that you think you’re in control because I would argue with you, anybody to Paul Tudor Jones, to the newest person, who’s starting trading today. You’re not in control. You have no control over the outcome of a trade. You cannot steer things. You cannot control things. The best thing you can do is enter your stops. And the reason I harp on stops a lot is because it’s discipline. It’s forced to discipline for you to exit a trade when it’s not going in your favor anymore. At that point, you don’t have to decide.
You decide way ahead of time when things aren’t working against you. So you have a clear head, you put in your protective stop. And if the market moves sharply, or if it’s leaking either way, you don’t renegotiate with your stop, you put your stop in and you let it get hit and you transfer the risk to somebody else who’s willing to take it on at that point in time at that price. It’s the old misnomer of market timing. It has nothing to do with time. It has to do with price. So you can do the same thing. Again, the feelings that you want to feel about being profitable and having more abundance are on the other side of feelings that you don’t want to feel feelings that you might have adopted from the environment that you’re in about risk. That don’t necessarily make a lot of sense, but it’s what you learned about risk and money. There are some people who actually find it painful to make money because they’re rejecting their upbringing, which was say strong middle class. And they’re not used to seeing people with financial abundance. So it’s painful for them. They’re not used to it. So you can actually build rules around that to make sure that you don’t grow out of your strong middle class upbringing and this way your trading rules will look at that too. You’ll certainly be trading, which is probably a step above maybe your parents or your grandparents or somebody else, maybe not, but you’ll set up your risk management in such a way that you’ll never really grow out of that.
You’ll be a middle class trader, nothing wrong with middle class. I’m just saying that if you’re doing this to build wealth, make sure you’re using wealth building strategies, which would be entering protective stops to protect your capital. Don’t buy things on pullbacks because a cheaper price doesn’t mean better price. And when you have a winning trade either, because you’re lucky you’ve had good timing or you’ve had good analysis, let it run because you don’t know that your $20 number can’t go to $30. And so taking your gains at $22, I guess it’s something to celebrate. But if you’ve left another $8 on the table compared to the $2 that you’ve taken out of the trade, I don’t necessarily think that that’s something to celebrate because you got the worst of it.
And in fact, I would say that you mishandled the trade, even if you’re a day trader and you know the thing moved from $20 to $30, over two weeks, you still mishandled that trade because you could have made more money for the risk that you were willing to take. So I would embrace the ability if you want to make more money in, what is it going to take you emotionally to want to take the risk home overnight? I know it’s not going to seem as sexy because you don’t have to do stuff, but good trading is boring. You don’t have to be active, right. And sooner or later this happens. Whether you like it or not. As you get older the thing about getting up and reading the news, it just becomes too much. It might not sound that way now, but as you get older, your sensibilities are going to change.
Because you’re going to have other things that are important to you’re going to have family life. You’re going to have other time constraints. And just the energy of it all. I live in Los Angeles so the markets open super early here. Cocoa opens at five o’clock in the morning, local time. So you have to set up your day to win. And to me it’s like, if you’re willing to take on the risk investigate, what do you think it is about the overnight or over the weekend risk that’s so horrifyingly scary. Where does that come from? Where did you learn that that wasn’t appropriate to do from anybody you see? Because your behavior predicts where you end up and if you’re leaving the majority of the money on the table, it doesn’t matter if you’re trading short term stuff and pulling down $500k. If you could have pulled $1.5 million from holding it longer, what’s the point again, think in terms of percentages, not dollar values, retail folks who come from working class, middle class they see things in dollars and they compare it to what their parents earned or other people who were important to them in their lives.
And this, again, this is not to belittle anybody. It’s just to say, how do we come into thinking and, and, and choosing to believe the things that we believe, right. Remember when I said good days are bad days, bad days are what you determine. You label them bad days. They’re not necessarily bad days. You label them bad days. You have the ability to find the goodness in it anyway, investigate that if you’re struggling with that area of your trading, and I think it can help you open some doors and then have the yes, you do. You have to have courage to think about changing, because like I said, the feelings that you want to feel are on the other side of feelings that you don’t necessarily want to feel perhaps in the short term, but you can coach yourself to feel them and get used to them and that’ll be your new comfort zone.
And then you’ll be off to the races. That’s why they say trading is 80% psychological and emotional it’s just the way it works. So don’t worry about learning a new strategy or a new chart pattern because that’s not going to help you deal with the fear you have to address the fear. And if you don’t address the fear, it’s going to keep coming up in your life as well as in your trading. All right, folks, if you haven’t already gotten a copy of the audio book, version of my book, The Inner Voice of Trading, and you’re new to the show. Thanks for being here. You can get that for free at MartinKronicle in the top right corner. Thanks for being here, folks. I will see you tomorrow.
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